Gorgeous 4 God’s Glory : A 21 Day Journey to Self Love, Self Care & Divine Purpose

Grow Up & Glow Up in God’s Grace

Day 1: What is Love? 

Reference scriptures - Pray that the Holy Spirit give you understanding of the precepts, context & personal application, read on your own study time; compare different translations for deeper meaning, specific illuminations & revelation

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 NLT; 

John 3:16-17 NLT; 

John 15:13-17 GNT; 

Roman’s 8:39 TPT

• Love is patient and kind. 
• Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. 
• Love does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 
• Love does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 
• Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 

Even though this description/definition of love applies in every relationship of love 

The ancient Greeks recognized several distinct TYPES of love, each with its own unique qualities and purpose. Here are three of the most prominent:

Eros: This is the passionate, romantic love often associated with physical attraction and intense emotion. It's the kind of love that sparks desire, excitement, and a deep connection with another person. Eros plays a crucial role in our lives by fostering intimacy, passion, and the drive to form deep, meaningful relationships.

Philia: Philia refers to the love between friends, characterized by loyalty, trust, and mutual respect. It's the kind of love that develops over time through shared experiences and a deep understanding of one another. Philia is essential for our well-being, as it provides us with a sense of belonging, support, and companionship.

Agape: Agape is often described as unconditional love, the kind of love that God has for humanity. It's a selfless, sacrificial love that seeks the well-being of others, regardless of their actions or worthiness. Agape inspires us to love others unconditionally, to forgive, and to extend compassion to all. It motivates us to live a life of service and to make a positive impact on the world.

Understanding these different types of love can help us navigate our relationships more effectively and cultivate deeper connections with others. 

We’ve talked about love, and now let's focus on the greatest love of all: agape love.

Do you truly understand how much God loves you? It’s a love so vast and deep that He sent His only Son, Jesus, to die for you. You are worthy of such sacrifice.

God doesn’t see your flaws or failures. He sees you as His beloved child. When you feel unloved or unworthy, remember that those feelings are lies from the enemy. Your true identity is found in Christ.

Embrace the freedom and joy that comes from knowing you are loved unconditionally. Trust in God’s plan for your life and let the Holy Spirit guide your steps.

Meditation visualization:

Find a quiet, peaceful space where you won’t be disturbed. Sit comfortably, either in a chair or on a cushion, with your back straight. Close your eyes gently.

Begin by centering yourself through deep, slow breaths. Inhale slowly through your nose, filling your lungs completely. Exhale slowly through your mouth. Focus on the sensation of your breath, calming your mind and body.

Now, visualize yourself walking through a serene garden, filled with the sweet fragrance of flowers and the gentle sounds of nature. As you delve deeper into this tranquil space, a sense of peace and tranquility washes over you. In the heart of this garden, you see a radiant figure, representing God, surrounded by a vibrant aura of love and compassion. Feel this love enveloping you completely.

Imagine this love extending beyond your physical form, embracing all beings with compassion and kindness. Connect with the universe, all living things, and the divine source of love.

Allow this love to dissolve any feelings of fear, doubt, or insecurity. Embrace this love as your own, knowing that you are worthy of it.

Visualize sending this love to others. Imagine it flowing out from you, reaching those you love and care about. Send love to those who are suffering, lonely, or in need of healing. Feel the joy and peace that comes from sharing this love.

Gently bring your attention back to your breath. Inhale the love and peace you’ve experienced, and exhale any tension or stress. When you’re ready, slowly open your eyes.

Remember, the most important aspect of this meditation is to feel the love and peace. If your mind wanders, gently bring it back to your breath or the visualization. Don’t be discouraged if you find it difficult to visualize. Practice this meditation regularly to deepen your connection to agape love.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, fill me with your boundless love and strength. May Christ dwell within me as I trust in Him. Deepen my understanding of Your immeasurable love. Help me to experience Your love fully, even though it surpasses human comprehension. May I be filled to the brim with Your life and power. Amen.